QUOTE(wizzy @ Mar 19 2008, 01:50 PM)
Have been reading over a few different forums this morn and have realized how much things hav changed.I've noticed it more and more everytime iv been out for the last yr
Forums shouldn't dictate the living scene that is out there pumping away in the clubs. People behind a computer are ALOT different to people in fluff and phats on the dance floor

QUOTE(KandiRaver @ Mar 19 2008, 01:57 PM)
Well, i hardly think you can use the information on these forums as an indication of the Rave Community in general.
Sure, the site has changed, the way these forums are used has dramatically changed, the people that used to post on here have mostly left and there are no longer any management as such overseeing the forums.
Raving has not lots i's soul, i just believe due to the music and the influx of new people from the current popular music has shifted the perception of raving. All things have to change with the times and this is what Raving is currently doing.
Raving is opening up to a diversity of people and sounds and i believe that to be a good thing.
Celeste is whole heartedly correct on this one. The sound is evolving, as are the people. That happens. Without evolution where would we be today? Still listening to acid-house I'm sure!
QUOTE(wizzy @ Mar 19 2008, 02:13 PM)
iv semi retired now mainly bcoz i startd to see the deception and fakeness around me and it brought me down i spent most of my time @ any events i did go to jus watchn people n i didn lke wat i saw
To have a good time when you're out you need to get rid of or limit your time around those that bring you down. There is deception and fakeness all around the world, not just in raving. Surround yourself with top people and you are more likely to have a great time. Don't make your night about watching or judging those around you, make it what you want it to be. Better yet, don't have any expectations at all! You're bound to wake up or walk away pleased that way

QUOTE(jase31 @ Mar 19 2008, 03:22 PM)
TIMES HAVE CHANGED, the very latest crew has a lack of fear and self respect-very unhealthy
This is true. I beleive it is to do with lack of knowledge as well as self respect and fear. Or just complete ignorance. It will take a harsh lesson for them to learn, or at least you hope they will learn.
QUOTE(NokturnL @ Mar 19 2008, 04:19 PM)
hit the nail on the head there... hence i've stopped going to events really... i find more satisfaction in spending quality time with the few true friends i have than mixing with the many fake ones...
You shouldn't have to limit your range of outtings because you have fake friends. Get rid of them, take your "true" friends to different outtings and make those outtings tops! Life is what you make it. Surround yourself with good people and you should have a good time. The vibe of a whole nightclub does not have to impact your night. Make your own vibe!
QUOTE(NokturnL @ Mar 19 2008, 09:58 PM)
i'm so with ya, but as soon as u mention anything about the rave scene goin downhill people start callin u sketchy...
I thought the oldies called it "jaded" or has that changed too?
Well that's my 17.5cents. Not saying the "scene" may not have changed. I know for me it has. But that's more to do with the style of music that's being played more and more these days. I'm still a high beleiver in life is what you make it.
This post has been edited by {Bunny}: Mar 20 2008, 02:29 AM